Happy Birthday, Hecate. I hope you're having a glorious day filled with pleasures to warm you from the tips of your tears of laughter to your very toes.
P.S. Did you scan that postcard for this? It looks like it's been well-loved.
It's your birthday? Happy! Happy!(as we say in this country).
So many wonderous Piscean bloggers out there.
Seriously though, this article struck a deep, resonating chord.
We have this problem in spades in South Africa - we're striving for the empowerment of women,and in a partially-third-world country this isn't easy. Not least because so many of our men are pathologically patriarchal in their very bones.
I see women trying to 'do it all' all the time.
It doesn't help that our extremely materialistic society is also, by and large, extremely religious.
So the women go out to work, often earning more than their husbands, but the sense of guilt they bear for this is enourmous.
I'm also the primary breadwinner in my household, but I have been blessed up to now with a partner who truely is a partner, in all senses of that word.
I'm a woman, a Witch, a mother, a grandmother, an eco-feminist, a gardener, a reader, a writer, and a priestess of the Great Mother Earth. Hecate appears in the
Homeric Ode to Demeter, which tells of Hades who caught Persophone
"up reluctant on his golden car and bare her away lamenting. . . . But no one, either of the deathless gods or of mortal men, heard her voice, nor yet the olive-trees bearing rich fruit: only tenderhearted Hecate, bright-coiffed, the daughter of Persaeus, heard the girl from her cave . . . ."
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Happy Birthday, Hecate. I hope you're having a glorious day filled with pleasures to warm you from the tips of your tears of laughter to your very toes.
P.S. Did you scan that postcard for this? It looks like it's been well-loved.
It's your birthday?
Happy! Happy!(as we say in this country).
So many wonderous Piscean bloggers out there.
Seriously though, this article struck a deep, resonating chord.
We have this problem in spades in South Africa - we're striving for the empowerment of women,and in a partially-third-world country this isn't easy.
Not least because so many of our men are pathologically patriarchal in their very bones.
I see women trying to 'do it all' all the time.
It doesn't help that our extremely materialistic society is also, by and large, extremely religious.
So the women go out to work, often earning more than their husbands, but the sense of guilt they bear for this is enourmous.
I'm also the primary breadwinner in my household, but I have been blessed up to now with a partner who truely is a partner, in all senses of that word.
Love,
Terri in Joburg
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